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    Tuesday, 25 March 2008

    Chateau Weekend: The Reader's Digest Version

    We returned home last night from our WONDERFUL getaway to the Loire valley to discover that for some inexplicable reason, our Internet service has been cut over the weekend and is still not restored. I am only able to blog this by the grace of our next-door neighbors who allowed us to patch into their home network.

    So here is the "short version" of our weekend. Longer details and wonderful pix to follow as soon as I can spare the bandwidth.

    Weekend was supposed to be rainy and snowy all the time. It wasn't. Miraculously blessed with sunshine and blue skies at precise moments where needed to tour chateau gardens. At EVERY chateau we visited.

    I DROVE A CAR. In Europe. For the first time. And didn't damage the car, any pedestrians, stray cats or the many cyclists who were clearly in training for the next Tour de France.

    Favorite discovery at a chateau: the amazing frothy architecture at Chambord. When you're standing on the top floor terraces getting a close-up view of all the spires, staircases and chimneys, it's like looking at a fancy French pastry.

    Franco-American trivia point that Georges did not know: that the Chambord liqueur that many Americans love and think is SOOOO French is something most French people have never heard of, and I'm not even sure you can buy it in liquor stores in France. The target market is outside of France. Their web site claims it was "inspired by" a recipe that dates back to the 17th century and Louis Quatorze, and that it's made "on the premises of a traditional Loire Valley chateau south of Paris" (implying that it's made AT Chambord, when it's really not). Yet you can buy a bottle in the gift shop at the famous chateau. I bought one just so Georges could try some, and to have some around for visitors from home. Or to drizzle on some cheesecake because it's seriously good that way. But isn't it interesting how marketers can completely bamboozle the buying public? The Chambord name has been licensed to many products over the years, including cars and coffee pots. I guess the idea is: Voila! Let's make it sound elegant and French, and then people will buy it. And so we do. (If you have seen Chambord sold elsewhere in France, leave a comment... I'd be curious about that.)

    The region is home to many troglodyte caves, some of which you can tour. There is also an aquarium and a tourist attraction where they have recreated all the most famous Loire chateaux in miniature. We ran out of time for those, but maybe on the next trip.

    The local Chinon wine is quite excellent. As was our Easter night dinner at L'Epicerie in Amboise, located at the foot of the town's chateau. You will probably need a reservation especially during weekends and holidays (we did), but we got a gourmand 4-course meal and great service with wine (and tip included) for 36 euros each. Can't beat that!

    Leonardo daVinci totally rocks. Second time I visited his last home, and I enjoyed it as much as the first time. The man was just plain freaking brilliant.

    And sometimes you have to skip the tourist stuff, the great architecture and the history lessons, and just snuggle up alone together in your cozy hotel room with the sound of the rain on the roof, and tune out the world. There's nothing better.

    Not even finding out that French kings have chosen salamanders and porcupines as their official royal logos.

    Thursday, 08 November 2007

    Chantilly

    Last Thursday, Georges and I took a little day trip to the Chateau de Chantilly. Located just a half-hour north of Paris, it's easy to get to by train from Gare du Nord. (If you have a car, there is parking near the chateau entrance.) Once at the train station, you can either take a taxi (we saw none, however), a bus from the train station (also absent), or take a nice 30-35 minute walk, either through the town -- which seemed to have lots of nice stores and places to eat -- or through a more natural, wooded area. We chose the wooded walk going in, and the town route coming back.

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    The weather was overcast (it was November 1st after all) and cool, but no rain. This is a portion of the entrance to the chateau, with the chapel on the left.

    This was the entrance hall (Georges took this one). I love the big vase of red flowers against all the white marble. Up those stairs is the Condé museum, which is the second largest collection of art in France, after the Louvre. Georges explained to me that Henri, the Duc d'Orleans, who last lived here, bequeathed the estate and all contents and artwork to the state, with one condition: that NOTHING should EVER be removed or changed. Which means... the museum cannot loan out its works of art to other museums. The furnishings must stay "as is", other than whatever they do for cleaning and periodic restoration. So everything here is pretty much a snapshot in time, to the Duc's day.

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    They also have a beautiful 2-level library, the kind you'd love to have for yourself with lots of wood paneling and all these leather-bound books. Sorry the photo is a bit blurry - low lighting, no tripod, and my hand must have twitched a bit. At the far end of the room was a fireplace and a single "club" armchair -- the Duc must have liked to read in complete privacy.

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    One of the things I love about French chateaux is the ornate ceiling decorations.

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    This little montage caught my eye because of the tiny coach.

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    We took the standard guided tour through the Grands Appartements, or Period Rooms. There is an additional tour you can take for a few extra euros through the private apartments, but Georges said they really weren't that interesting and we wanted more time to walk around the grounds instead of being indoors all day.

    This was a very nice room. At the back, there is a chest of drawers that apparently belongs in Versailles, but because of the Duc's terms of the bequest, it cannot be removed to its original location!

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    This desk, according to our guide, is the most expensive item in the entire chateau. It is ebony wood inlaid with tortoise shell and gold. I sometimes find the French period furniture to be a bit over the top, but this is the kind of piece I think you could easily fit into any kind of eclectic decor. Alas, they weren't selling copies in the gift shop!

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    After our tour of the interior (more photos here on Flickr), we walked through the gardens toward the hameau, the "fake" little village on the grounds. There is a small restaurant located there, where we had a nice lunch. Then more walking through the woods until it was finally time to head home. Nice walk past the stables (which houses a museum of interest to horse-lovers) and the Hippodrome (where horse racing still takes place), and through the town of Chantilly. Due to the holiday, the shops were fermé, but there were many nice ones if you were to visit on a normal day.

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    If you're in Paris and want to see something outside of the city, this would make a really nice excursion, and it is no where near as crowded as Versailles or as far away as the chateaux in Tours (which are worth the longer trip, though). The gardens at Chantilly, incidentally, were also designed and built by Le Notre, who did the gardens at Versailles, the Tuileries, the Parc St. Cloud and others. In season, with full plantings, I'm sure they are really spectacular; in November, they are just nice and peaceful.



    Tuesday, 11 September 2007

    Window-shopping in Salzburg

    After having spent a small fortune in Venice, both from the high cost of just BEING there, plus the jewelry and Christmas shopping I did, I pretty much stuck to window-shopping in Salzburg and limited my spending to sightseeing fees, a "Silent Night"/Christmas music CD from Oberndorf, and a few postcards.

    However, window-shopping in Salzburg's "Old Town" does NOT disappoint! Sure, they have all the usual designer boutiques you can find in any major city anywhere in the world and the typical cheap souvenir vendors, but they also have lots of other wonderful little stores to explore.

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    There was a store in Salzburg that had thousands of hand-decorated eggs already in place as Christmas decorations (they also had them for Easter/springtime as well). I couldn't believe the variety and the detail!

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    I would have bought out the store except I really had no way to get them safely back here with me to Paris. After all, they ARE just eggshells. Here are a few more:

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    Of course, they don't just sell beautiful decorated eggs in Salzburg. Here are some other local specialties to be found. First, more Christmas cheer (in August):

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    Like the Maria von Trapp look? It's easy to do at 20% off (and these are NOT "costumes" for tourists but shops where Austrians get to tap into their cultural heritage, and some people still do wear these as every day attire):

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    And don't forget something for the kids...

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    I think these shop keepers really wanted my business. They even named a store after me:

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    I know what "kosmetik" probably means, but what's that other thing? I'm almost afraid to ask...


    Friday, 07 September 2007

    Makes you want to jump right in

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    This adorable 4-poster bed with the super puffy down comforter (complete with "do not touch" card on top) was spotted at the Alsatian Museum in Strasbourg, which is very much worth the time to visit. The museum consists of several adjoining buildings, three levels, lots of staircases and rooms to explore, and lots of authentic furniture, clothing, tools and implements, religious artifacts (including an entire section devoted to the history of Alsace's Jewish population), kitchens, wine caves and more. It was really fascinating and extremely well done; do go if you're in the area!

    Wednesday, 05 September 2007

    Firsts

    I was going through some of the photos I shot while on my Grand Tour, and realized how many "firsts" I'd had while on this trip. Some were fairly obvious and signficant, the "biggies", the things I knew going in would be virgin territory for me:

    • First time in Italy and Austria
    • First time in Geneva, Milan, Venice, Salzburg, Munich and Strasbourg and surrounding areas
    • First time traveling this long on my own
    • First time ever taking an entire two weeks off at once (how sad that it took me this long!)
    • First time traveling solely by train, no planes
    • First time in a gondola
    • Seeing The Last Supper
    • Seeing the Sound of Music film location sites
    • Walking through the gates at Dachau

    But then, there were other, more subtle "firsts" -- the experiences I didn't, couldn't, anticipate:

    • Meeting and talking with people from Nairobi; never met anyone from Kenya before.
    • Spotting my first glacier while being bussed up and over the Simplon Pass.
    • Being nearly nose-to-nose with a Swiss cow... and having a herd of German cows hold up my train.
    • Taking what are probably the most romantic series of pictures I've ever taken, completely by accident.
    • Standing in Mozart's home.
    • Feeling the energy of the past that still haunts Dachau.
    • Having a giant beer at the Hofbrauhaus with the wife and children of a U.S. military man stationed in Iraq, toasting her 50th birthday and the safe arrival the following day of her husband/their dad.
    • Finding out that the both the composer of the Marseillaise (the French national anthem) and Gutenburg (creator of the printing press) both lived in Strasbourg.
    • Finding out what "thumb screws" and other nasty medieval torture devices actually look like after having only read about them (courtesy the castle in Salzburg).
    • Realizing Notre Dame de Paris is perhaps no longer my all-time favorite cathedral. It's at least tied with the Duomo in Milan now for taking my breath away.
    • Finding out how fantastic train travel really can be.
    • The heart-stopping views over the Swiss alps and at King Ludwig's castle. You think you'll be prepared, having seen pictures. Then you find you're not.
    • Falling head-over-heels in love... with Venice.

    It's the unexpected things on a journey that make it all worthwhile. The little discoveries -- seeing something unusual in a shop window; having a conversation with complete strangers while on a train; walking for hours through ancient, winding alleyways, not knowing quite where you'll turn up -- are what make travel interesting, at least to me.

    Those are the memories that are already standing out for me.

    More Grand Tour pix!

    I've got a few more sets of photos uploaded now, all except the last day.

    Be patient for more stories... I'll get around to it!

    Tuesday, 04 September 2007

    When the "train grande vitesse" isn't so "vite"

    Taking the TGV from Stuttgart to Paris via Strasbourg (where I was headed) was supposed to take 1 hour 16 minutes to Strasbourg, precisely. And the TGV is always precise, oui?

    Beh, non... pas toujours.

    First, we stopped dead on the tracks for about 10 minutes, in the middle of no-where. Not really sure what the problem was, but we eventually got moving again and got up to speed. Then, a bit later, another long stop... they made announcements in German and French, which I couldn't make out. A man behind us ("us" being me and an American family across the aisle with whom I'd struck up a conversation since they were en route to Paris and wanted some sightseeing tips) said something about cows being on the tracks.

    Cows? COWS? I thought maybe he was pulling my leg about that, and chalked it up to perhaps some other technical problems. Even the TGV can have small breakdowns, I figured.

    Then, it was close to the time I thought I was supposed to be arriving in Strasbourg (11:47), but slightly after which was not surprising because of the delays. I packed up and prepared to move to the doors, and then saw one of the conductors, and asked her if the next stop was Strasbourg. No, it was Ulm, still in Germany (we definitely had NOT crossed the Rhine river!) I asked when we were due to arrive in Strasbourg and she said approximately another 90 minutes!

    What? That's a pretty huge delay. Well, first of all, turns out I made an error in my timetable -- the train was supposed to originally arrive in Strasbourg at 12:47, not 11:47. My mistake.

    But it turned out that there WERE, in fact, cows on the tracks ahead of us between Ulm and Strasbourg. Apparently quite a LOT of cows. Like, some sort of German cattle drive was taking place -- right across the high-speed TGV tracks. In 2007 -- not 1907 -- they were letting cows cross the train tracks and hold up the trains which are allegedly ALWAYS on time. So much for speed and efficiency, as they finally had to send us back in the opposite direction and take different (non-high-speed) tracks to get around to Strasbourg, because the cows had been given priority status. We arrived in Strasbourg 35 minutes later than scheduled (and an hour and 35 minutes later than I had thought I was going to be arriving). All because of cows.

    The alternative? I had a brief vision of the TGV, ramping up to top speeds of 300+, barreling through the cattle drive, with cows being tossed through the air rather like a bowling ball crashing into the ten pins. Only with much more carnage.

    Kind of takes the idea of "cow tipping" to a whole new level: "cow bowling". Oh, les vaches.

    Monday, 03 September 2007

    Rentrée

    It is the rentrée in France this week: the rentrée scolaire, otherwise known as "back to school", or "real life". The summer holidays are officially over... I've even noticed it's already getting darker earlier. It's the same thing in the States where I'm from in the Northeast -- starting tomorrow and throughout the week, schools across New Jersey (and in many other states) will be bringing back their students and teachers (in some states, back-to-school starts before Labor Day so your kids might already be out of the house).

    It was also my own rentrée on Saturday -- my re-entry into everyday (Paris) life after two weeks of trotting around some of Europe's finest cities on some of Europe's best rail systems. It's funny to realize that in coming home to Paris I am actually coming HOME, because this is no longer a vacation destination for me... it's where I've chosen to live. I solidified this commitment by informing my landlords on Saturday afternoon that I'd be very pleased to extend our current arrangement by a minimum of another six months if they were open to that. They were positively thrilled with my decision (it greatly simplifies their lives, plus they quite like me!) which made me very happy and relieved, as I want to stay in Paris but frankly right now I have too much on my plate to contemplate the thought of finding and outfitting an entire unfurnished Parisian apartment. No, best to stay put for a while longer (this "extension" takes me at least up to June 2008) even though this isn't my stuff and it's costing a bit more than I would like (and the exchange rate is killing me).

    Making this decision -- do I want to stay, and if so how long -- was one of the things I wanted to consider while I was on the Grand Tour. I came up with a firm "Yes!" to the first part of that question, and an "indefinitely" to the second part, so I haven't got it all worked out yet. The reality is, I don't really need to decide "how long" right now. There's nothing pressuring me either way -- it's totally up to me. And right now there isn't anyplace I'd rather live more, than in Paris. So... I will stay a while longer. Until it either (a) stops being so much fun or (b) something even more compelling requires me to change addresses again. It's nice having that kind of freedom to really just CHOOSE where I want to be and how long I want to be there. Kind of like how I was able to plan and take this vacation.

    Re-entry to "real life" on Saturday was not without its small bumps. For one thing, I had planned to stop in Reims for several hours on the way back to Paris from Strasbourg, so I could see the great cathédrale and do some champagne tastings at Veuve Cliquot and Mumm's, both of whom have tours and tastings right in the city (you don't need to go out into the surrounding champagne country to do this, although there are many more champagne producers located in the environs) Unfortunately when I got to the Reims train station, I discovered they offer neither luggage lockers nor baggage check facilities, and I had three pieces of luggage with me which were far too heavy to drag all over the city -- especially if I was going to be tasting champagne all afternoon! Since it's only 45 minutes away from Paris via TGV, I knew I could easily come back there again for a day trip, and promptly caught the next train back to town... eight hours earlier than expected.

    Which meant I had to warn Kyliemac, who was apartment-sitting for me with a friend of hers who was visiting from out of town. This was an ideal arrangement for all of us... her apartment is a very small studio, and though mine is not large, it is more comfortable for two people for 10 days with both a bedroom and fold-out couch, which made it much nicer for them, and they really enjoyed staying here; and I had the security of knowing someone I trusted was looking after my stuff, since my landlords were also en vacance through most of August. I had told her I would text her when I knew what time I'd be arriving, so I sent a message to expect me around 11:30-ish on Saturday. Earlier than anticipated, but not TOO early.

    Or so I thought. I got here and discovered they were still sleeping, the lazy bums! 11:45 on a Saturday in Paris with a whole city still to explore, and still sleeping! What's up with that! (Just kidding, Kylie...) But since I sort of sneaked up on them, I really wasn't surprised. I grabbed something to eat quickly, and grabbed the shopping cart to head for the supermarket to stock up on supplies, which gave them time to regain consciousness, eat breakfast, and finish packing up. I came back with my provisions, we had time to chat together for a little while, and then they departed.

    Kylie also pointed out to me that the spot on my bedroom wall where I had suspected there was a plumbing leak from the upstairs apartment had, in fact, gotten MUCH worse while I was away. I should point out that there is a back-story here: there is a round vent in the upper corner of the wall, which you see here in the photo. These vents are commonplace in older Parisian apartments and date back to the days when gas was used for heating and even for lighting, because they had to make sure people wouldn't be accidentally asphyxiated in their homes. In this building, however, the stove is electric, and the heat is hot-water radiator heating, and the building was totally renovated within the past three years, so this vent is actually completely USELESS in terms of it being a life-saving thing for me.

    What it is, is a damned nuisance, because SOMEONE else in the building has apparently routed their kitchen hood vent into this air shaft. So what is supposed to draw stale air OUT of my apartment, now forces smelly cooking odors INTO my bedroom! And whoever is doing the cooking (I suspect its the tenants directly above me as I think their kitchen is above my bedroom) tends to do it rather late in the evening, Paris style, i.e. after 9pm and sometimes after 10pm. This is annoying to have your bedroom smelling like cooking lamb or pork or chicken when you are trying to relax and read in bed.

    I had spoken to my very nice landlords about it but at the time they didn't know what they could really do about it, and they didn't know any way to cover it up. So I did what I thought was the only sensible thing; I scotch-taped a piece of plastic over the vent to prevent the smells from coming in. And it worked.

    I didn't realize there was also STEAM coming in through that vent, as well as a load of DUST. The plastic trapped the moisture and after a few months I noticed one day that there was a lot of discoloration and a bit of bubbling around the plastic. Ooops. I removed it, and a bunch of paint came off with the scotch tape. Merde!

    I dutifully confessed to my landlords what had happened, and of course offered to pay to repaint and repair around the damage, which at the time was localized to within an inch or two of the actual vent. We agreed to put off the repairs until after the summer holidays, and that I would have to live with the cooking odors since clearly, covering the vent with plastic had been a bad idea. The vent remained open. My landlords left for their six week French-style holidays in mid-July and I did not expect to see or speak to them again until September.

    A week before I left for my own vacation, I looked at the wall and noticed that something bad was happening. There were bigger bubbles along the wall between the window frame and the vent... and worse yet, there were now bubbles long the adjacent right-hand wall as well. And a long dark stained streak running down the wall from where the original paint damage was done. This had to be a plumbing leak from upstairs - in no way could that much condensation be coming in from the neighbors venting steam from a boiling pot of water. I thought, "Well, THIS will be a nice surprise for the landlords when we all meet again in September!"

    Dsc_0012 When I came back on Saturday, it had gotten drastically worse -- see for yourself. Now the paint all along the window was bubbled, and slightly damp. More water streaks appeared on the wall. The bubbling was showing up ceiling to floor, from the cornice above the window curtain rods all the to the floor-boards, which appeared to have gotten soaked and on which the paint was now peeling and more wall bubbling appeared. Stains were on the wood floors, too. And the bubbles on the right-hand wall had gotten worse, too.

    I called the landlords immediately. They came over to gawk with me at the walls, and agreed this was far bigger than the original problem I had caused with my little piece of plastic and tape. This was either a plumbing leak or perhaps even the result of some recent torrential rains and water coming in from outside -- which in fact had happened in THEIR apartment as well, on the same exterior wall (they live next door, same floor). We did have quite a bit of rain in the past month. They called the building's owner, and he came in to inspect, make lots of typical French gestures and say things like: oh, la, la! He agreed with us all, that this was some sort of leakage problem. I had fun trying to follow their conversation in French, and could make out the word assurance meaning "insurance". They discussed whether this might be from Monsieur and Madame's kitchen above, or something else -- I never did quite get which the owner thought it might be.

    To make a long story in no way shorter, as annoying as it was to come home to a leakage problem, there is a huge silver lining in this for me; TWO silver linings in fact. (1) Since the leakage, wherever it's from, far exceeds the original damage I did, the landlord's insurance will cover all the repairs since it's all in the same place, so I'm off the hook for the repairs altogether! And (2), the building owner agrees this stupid vent thing is totally pas nécessaire, and HE is going to arrange for it to be removed and the hole covered up -- so no more nasty cooking smells in my apartment! I just have to wait for all the repairs to be made (being that it's France, no telling when that might actually BE), but once again, being a renter has some distinct advantages. It is now someone else's problem to solve, and at someone else's expense. Vive la France!

    I spent the rest of the balance of my pre-rentrée weekend relaxing, doing laundry, catching up with friends and family back home, sleeping a lot and watching DVDs, and in general milking the concept of "vacation" to the Nth degree. I thought I might go out yesterday to a museum, since on the first Sunday of every month, most of them offer free admission to all, but opted for the lazier choice of merely walking down the street right here in my neighborhood and checking out what is new in the local Sunday market... and I noticed that sweaters and scarves are back on the menu, now that the fall weather is approaching.

    Now, it is Monday. In the States, today is "Labor Day" which ironically is a national holiday where no one labors except retailers offering sales; the last big fling before back-to-school, with barbecues galore. In France, it is just another work day. I've kind of eased into my morning here, but now am going to put the wheels in motion to get back to work. I've got a short "to do" list already written out, to keep me on track and focused -- something that's hard to do when your brain is still feeling lazy.

    After all, I've got to make sure there's plenty of money in the coffers now that I've committed myself to this apartment through next June!

    Let the rentrée begin!

    Weight/Wait

    Reasons to take a 6-lb. laptop computer (plus another 4 lbs. worth of accessories including a special laptop-padded backpack, power cables, camera disk USB reader, adaptors/converters AND security cables so that while you are out sightseeing, you can padlock your laptop to the radiator in the hotel room in order to prevent theft) on a two-week solo tour of Europe:

    • Dsc_0055 You can stay in touch with friends and family via email. This is especially nice for the solo traveler as you will want to share your experiences on the road, and reassure your mother -- still overprotective even though you're 40-something -- that you are alive, well, and have not been kidnapped and sold into slavery.
    • You can log on and double-check alternative train schedules when you find out that the city you thought would be so exciting is, in fact, dead boring. This enables you to make the most of your precious vacation time by letting you move onto the next place on your itinerary and arrive early... where you will get to enjoy things like gondola rides or incredible mountain views from medieval castles.
    • You can review Google Maps when you realize you neglected to print off a map of a certain city and you can't remember how to get from the train station to that very special cathedral you wanted to see.
    • You can download your photos from your digital camera daily, making room on your camera disk for the next day's images -- plus you get the instant gratification of seeing your photos the same day you took them! You can also upload your photos to your Flickr account, giving friends and family the ability to travel along with you, virtually.
    • You can keep your travel diary on your computer, write little stories about your experiences, or post things to your blog to entertain the masses.
    • The specially padded backpack provides you with extra space to carry your book, water bottle, extra jacket, toiletries, and souvenirs you might pick up en route. When you're trying to travel for 2 weeks with one small suitcase, this extra storage space seems like a good idea.

    Reasons to leave the 6-lb. laptop (plus 4 additional lbs. of assorted accessories) at home, where it probably belongs since you are supposed to be ON VACATION:

    • You will not be able to get internet access everywhere you go, thereby negating 85% of the "pros" listed above. Instead of spending time on the internet in your hotel room, you may find yourself playing Solitaire just to make it seem worthwhile to have dragged this thing across half of Europe.
    • Even if you get internet access, the emails you send to loved ones may "bounce" if their email provider decides to flag them as "spam" because they are being routed through a foreign email carrier's WiFi access.
    • Even when you pay for internet access, you may not be able to use it if the idiot WiFi company (this means YOU, Orange.fr in Strasbourg) ONLY sends you your log-in codes via your French cell phone (and the SMS never arrives) or via e-mail (which you can't access without the codes - DUH!), forcing you to beg the (very nice) girl at the reception desk for assistance in phoning Orange.fr's French-only customer service (the English # they offer not being in service at all) and either get you the log-in codes, or a refund of the 18 Euros you just spent for nothing. Oh, la vache! Quel nightmare.
    • 10 lbs. is roughly the size of a medium-weight bowling ball or the human head. It doesn't sound like much, but it gets exponentially heavier with each city block you have to walk with it strapped to your back (plus dragging your other suitcase with you, even a small one, and any other tote bags or cases you might have brought alone with you).

    In retrospect I suppose I am glad I brought it on some levels -- being able to off-load the photos every night and free up camera space was nice, but it would have been lighter/easier to just buy a couple of extra 1Gb. camera disks and carry THEM around. The ability to reach friends and family via email made me feel less out of touch... but there were several places where I couldn't even do that very well, or at all, and where I was forced to use my cell phone to make international calls to check in, anyway. I did not use the laptop to keep my travel journal, but did it the old fashioned way -- pen and ink -- which I actually enjoyed more as I could sit in a café and scribble to my heart's content.

    Dsc_0249 In the balance, "weighing" the pros and cons, I am a bit sorry I decided to bring it, mainly because it was just an extra burden to carry -- literally -- and I probably could have used a public terminal to check email in the hotels I stayed at, which given my grandmother's fragile condition was kind of important to me and to the family. I could have waited until I got home to look at my photos, read other people's blogs (although to my credit I did very little of that), and I could have forced you all to go an entire two weeks without any Bold Soul updates (you would have missed me a little, but you would have survived, right?)

    It is this obsessive 21st-century need we now have to be "in touch" and accessible at all times that drives us to do stupid things like carry an extra 10 or more pounds of unnecessary technology with us ON VACATION. This was not a business trip (although some book research was involved in my case, which could qualify as "business")... it was supposed to be TIME OFF. I really could have waited to do whatever I thought I needed to do via my computer, instead of dragging the extra weight with me.

    Even though I probably lost a bit of weight through the extra physical effort of "weight lifting" my laptop.

    Live and learn. Next time perhaps I'll be "bolder", and leave the damn machine at home.

    Friday, 31 August 2007

    All good things: Reflections on the end of the journey

    I'm in Strasbourg, France this morning, giving myself permission for a slightly lazy morning as Strasbourg isn't very big and I don't want to run out of things to do later! So it's 9am, I'm still in bed and thinking about getting up now because my stomach is rumbling.

    It's Day 13. Tomorrow, I go home to Paris, via a bit of a detour in Reims. It's hard to believe I'm finally at the end of this trip! I won't say it's all been a blur because I have really been making the effort to be "in the moment" in each place and on each train, and just enjoy it for whatever it is. When you travel "lite" like this (a little of this and that in every new city, connected by hours of travel in between), it can be easy to have your experiences run one into the other, without any clear recollections or impressions.

    Taking a lot of digital photos and being able to review them every evening on my computer has helped with that. I didn't get to post as many of them online as I'd hoped, but that would have been more for other people's benefit than my own, of wanting to share what I'm seeing and doing. Maybe that's a function of traveling solo, that you sometimes experience something and want to reach and and tell someone while it's fresh in your mind. Fortunately good cell phone service throughout Europe -- even in the highest mountains or most remote Venetian lagoon isles -- has enabled me to stay connected.

    I've seen miles (I should say kilometers; I'm in Europe) of beautiful scenery rolling past me from my comfortable first-class compartment seats. I've seen glaciers and snow-dusted peaks, clear mountain streams and lakes that are tinted shades of turquoise that almost don't look real. I've floated past medieval palaces and half-timbered houses on boats. I've even ridden on a tour bus with a guide who clearly wanted to be a stand-up comedian but who had little sense of what's actually funny, all while hearing Sound of Music songs playing in the background: the ultimate hokey tourist experience.

    And I've walked miles. And climbed hundreds of stairs. And hiked up high mountain paths just to see incredible views for a few minutes (while I recovered my ability to breathe normally again) before snapping some very worthwhile photos and hiking back down again. There is also a reason, I have learned, that they call it "luggage", and what started out as one heavy backpack and one heavy rolling carry-on has somehow multiplied to include one tote bag (with one giant glass beer stein) and a cute new canvas across-the-body tote bag just the right size for my camera and a few day-trip necessities. I have lugged this luggage across five countries for the better part of two weeks, and that in itself has been a workout. I will be interested to see, when I get back, just how many pounds I've managed to take off,  because it feels substantial. Traveling alone is more fun than going to the gym; I get the workout because there is no one to carry the bags but me, and I get to go to all these interesting places in the process. I always lose weight on a vacation. Always. It's one of the paradoxes of my life.

    I've met all kinds of interesting people along the way. I traveled from Venice to Salzburg with a lovely couple from New Zealand who were great fun; they were on a delayed six-week honeymoon, having married in January after being together for six years prior. Being back in Venice was part of the honeymoon, as he proposed to her in a gondola on their last visit, and it was a total surprise to her as they hadn't even talked about marriage!

    In Venice, I chatted with a family, originally from Nairobi but now living in Canada, who were touring Italy with family members who now live in Rome. In Geneva, I shared my dessert one evening (the world's biggest ice-cream-filled crepe) with an American father of four, because when the dessert was brought to my table, the littlest boy asked what it was called and it turned out the dad had almost ordered the same dessert and was now apparently a bit sorry he hadn't. As I was in no way going to be able to eat all that, I gave the father a big enough chunk that they could all have a taste. Then we all chatted for a while before going our separate ways. Solo travel is like that; it gives you reasons to socialize with total strangers.

    My favorite people were the American family I met at my table at the Hofbrauhaus in Munich. They were from Michigan, a mother and her three young-adult children. It was the mother's 50th birthday, and they were waiting to meet up with her husband/their father, who was due to fly in the next day -- from Iraq. turns out he's a career military man with the security forces over there. It's his second tour of duty, and they haven't seen him this time around for eight months. He was due to get a few days of leave to join them before having to go back. They weren't even sure when he was arriving, or where in Europe he'd be landing -- even he didn't know until he could get to Kuwait to get a flight assignment. So they were just biding their time, drinking enormous beers, listening to the oompah band, and fighting extreme jet-lag while they thought about seeing the man they loved most in all the world. I took Kris's (the mom) email address with me and she asked for my card. In a few weeks I'm going to write to her because I'm dying to hear how the reunion turned out. And I'll be praying that he gets home safe from Iraq to stay, and soon. Just like all the others that are over there.

    No, no vacation romances to speak of -- although I did have a "moment" in Salzburg where I locked eyes rather intensely (one of those "I felt it in my knees" looks) with a very good looking man across a restaurant one evening. Alas, I was just finishing my coffee and he was just sitting down to a very late dinner, and I couldn't invent enough reasons to hang around and hope for better things.

    Was I lonely? Surprisingly, hardly ever. And even at those odd moments where I sort of wished I had someone to cuddle up to or hold my hand, I was actually quite happy I decided to do this thing for myself alone. I may be single in my personal life, but professionally I've spent years putting the needs of clients or family members first, and I really needed this time on my own to disconnect from "real" life for a bit (yes, even real life in Paris can wear on you at times, just like living anywhere else!)

    Traveling with someone you love, be it friends, family, lover or spouse, is wonderful because you do have someone to share the memories you're creating together. That's what's great about relationships -- having the ability to share things with another person.

    Sometimes, though, it's good NOT to have to share. Sometimes it's good to be a bit selfish, to keep certain things only for yourself. Traveling solo has that distinct advantage... it's all yours to do with whatever you choose. You decide where to go, how to get there, and what to do once you ARE there; you don't need to consult anyone else for once, or care about what someone else wants or needs to do with the time you've got. There's no arguing or even a need to compromise. You see what you want to see, do what you want to do, stay as long as you want in a place, and leave when you've had enough... for once it can be all about you.

    How many things in life can you say THAT about? I'm surprised more women aren't traveling solo for this very reason, because lord knows every woman needs a little of this kind of quality alone time in her life.

    I've had plenty of quality alone time on this trip, and in a way, the romance I've had has been with myself. Except for a few dodgy, worrying moments in the beginning when I was concerned about my grandmother, I've been able to be with myself and my thoughts in a way I don't often get to do in everyday life, when I'm frequently thinking about what my clients need or what someone back home is doing, or even what my new friends in Paris are up to (apparently, in the past two weeks, two of them have been very busy falling madly in love with very nice guys, and thanks to text-messaging I've been keeping up with it all, and very happy I am for both of them!)  But this quality alone time has been really good for me. It's given me time to think about what I want, where I want to go from here, and even what I want to focus on with my personal writing. I've got a new idea for a book I'm quite excited about, for one thing, and that's no small thing.

    So, while all good things must eventually come to an end, and this holiday is no different, it's also the beginning of new things for me as well. I've had time to think about my future plans and I've got a direction to follow, goals to look forward to, both personally and professionally, and a whole world to explore. And the meantime, I've got Paris to come home to!

    Now if you will excuse me, I will get my lazy ass out of here and go explore the rest of Strasbourg. (In fact, the maid just knocked on the door to see if she could clean the room, so I guess that's my cue!) I have a date with a very unusual astronomical clock in the old town's very beautiful cathedral around the lunch hour and don't want to miss it!

    Tuesday, 28 August 2007

    Still on the road... Days 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 (Short Version)

    Yes, I'm still alive. And definitely well! I'm in Munich now and finally have a half-way decent Internet connection; in Venice I had access but it wasn't great and I used it to check e-mail only, and in Salzburg I just couldn't get the connection to work. I took that to mean I wasn't supposed to be on-line, but enjoying myself. And I have!

    Because this is costing me by the hour, I'm going to keep it brief, and post just a photo or two more. When I get back to "real life" next week, I'll have blog-fodder ad nauseum to share about my travels, to the point where you will most likely be BEGGING me to write about Paris again. So here are the highlights:

    MILAN:

    • You know about my experience at The Last Supper. Pity it wasn't more serene, but I'm glad I got to see it anyway.
    • The Duomo: I was completely knocked off my feet at the sight of it! It is a masterpiece.
    • Otherwise, there wasn't much that I could recommend about Milan; although in fairness more than half the restaurants in town were closed for summer holidays and maybe it's a better place to be at other times of the year.

    VENICE:

    • Cannot say enough wonderful things about Venice. It's a city but feels like a village, and one where it is actually safe to wander around darkened alleys because the entire city is darkened alleys.
    • Did I mention I bought lace in Burano at the oldest shop on the island? And it was a total fluke that I wandered in there, mainly because I caught sight of a very elderly little lady actually making lace? And after I got done shopping I further discovered that this shop is Elton John and Hugh Grant's place to buy lace (in Hugh's case, hopefully as a gift) and Gianni Versace also shopped there before he died. Who knew I was standing in the same store where celebrities go for their fine Italian lace?
    • Murano for glass: had a lovely morning there capped off by a delicious lunch that was so expensive I ate cheap takeout for dinner to compensate. Bought lots of lovely things there, too. It was my "splurge" day.
    • Doge's Palace: another worthwhile thing to do. And I didn't take photos where I wasn't supposed to.
    • I think I was the only single woman in Venice who was taking a gondola ride. Possibly I was the only single woman on vacation in Venice, period.

    SALZBURG:

    • Stunning architecture, right out of time and Hollywood movies. My hotel, a short bus ride from the train, was in the last remaining "old" part of their Right Bank (most of the Old town is on the left, and a lot of the older stuff on the right was bombed in the war), was perfectly situated and right near Mozart's house and the Mirabell Gardens as well. Also had a great (free) breakfast - you can always plan on getting a good hotel breakfast in Austria or Germany, in my experience.
    • Went right out on arrival and walked through the Old Town, seeing many of the familiar sights from the Sound of Music (the fountain with the big horse heads, for one) and then took the funicular up to the big medieval castle. As castles go, this one totally ROCKED. They have done an incredible job on restoration and maintenance, and it's not just a castle, it's an entire village (as they often were in the "olden times"). And the 360-degree views cannot be beaten.
    • Took a horse and buggy ride around the rest of the old town to save a bit of walking (seriously, I think I've lost at least 5 lbs in the past 10 days), causing my buggy driver to not only ask if I was alone, but WHY? I was reminded of a line from the film "Shirley Valentine" where she says, "If you're a woman on your own, it doesn't half seem to upset people", and I am noticing that when it comes to vacationing alone, this is sometimes true. You see men out alone all the time -- maybe traveling for business -- and women do travel alone for business as well. But vacationing on your own as a woman? People just don't get it. I'm smelling another book that needs to be written... and I already have a title (sorry - not telling!)
    • Took a morning trip to Oberndorf to visit the Silent Night chapel. My grandmother was there in '56 so this was a "must" for me.
    • Same day, did the Sound of Music tour (Panorama tours). To be honest, in the beginning I thought I had wasted $35. We did see a few things but you can't get out at every location, and they don't show you every single movie location either (probably because they just can't for practical reasons). But then they took us on a long country drive through the Lake country around Salzburg, which was just gorgeous, and we ended up at Mondsee where the church is located where they filmed "Maria's Wedding" scene in the movie. We had a little more time out there, and the weather was great for a drive out in the hills. So I felt a bit better about the whole thing. Realistically there is no way you can really do all of that on your own anyway as the locations are nearly all outside of the walkable part of the city.

    MUNICH/DACHAU:

    • I got here around 9:30 and my hotel is literally a block from the train station. Dropped my luggage off (too early for check-in) and turned around back to the station to catch the S-Bahn to Dachau, just 20 minutes out. From there, there is a local bus that takes you right to the entrance of the camp and memorial site.
    • You can rent an audio guide and they do offer guided tours in English but only once a day and I was too early for that. I ended up spending HOURS there, much longer than I expected, because they have a detailed exhibit space set up in one of the original buildings, and between the audio and the stuff you can read about, it takes a while. I was glad I thought to bring a bottle of water and some fruit, cheese and crackers because I got there at 10:30 and left at 3pm!!! (The guided tour takes 2.5 hours - I guess I dawdled a lot). I really didn't want to rush this as it might be my only opportunity to visit a camp, and Dachau was the beginning of the horror.
    • It was announced that it would open within 2 months of Hitler coming into power, as place to "put the Communists" - at least that's what they told the media, who initially bought the story hook, line and sinker (I read a NY Times article from 1933 about it, in the museum). Then the commandant turned it into such a model of efficiency that they used it as the model for all the other camps as well.
    • The original prisoner barracks are gone but their foundations are still there, and they reconstructed two buildings, one of which you can walk in to see approximately what it would have looked like. There are chapels/memorials: Jewish, Catholic, Protestant, Russian Orthodox, and a connecting gate to a convent behind the wall.
    • So now I'm here and as soon as I check e-mail I'm going down to the historic center of town and hitting the Hofbrauhaus for a big beer and something to eat.

    I have so many pictures I just can't take the time to upload them all to Flickr right now -- there are hundreds and I need to edit before I can post -- but I'll pick a couple to represent highlights, and post those instead.

    Tomorrow, Day 11, it's King Ludwig's castle and another afternoon/evening here to explore a bit more of Munich, then off to Strasbourg for Day 12-13, and on Saturday (last day) it's Reims for the day, then back to Paris. I can't believe I've been on the road 10 days so far.

    I am having the time of my life, people.

    Wednesday, 22 August 2007

    Day 4 - En route to Milan via the Simplon Pass

    Well, it had to happen eventually. I had to miss ONE train!

    But I'm getting ahead of myself. I got out of Geneva with no trouble, and had a very comfortable train trip around the Swiss side of Lac Leman, through Lausanne, Montreux, and Sion, and came into Brig on time.

    Had a minor snafu in finding the PostBus at the Brig train station. The directions that were emailed to me were to look for the "long way out" of the train station toward the "Autoquai". Coming down from the platform, it looked like the main station was easily accessible by following the crowd to the left; to the right there was a sign pointing to the "Autoquai", so I followed that.

    It sure WAS the "long way out", and also the WRONG way out. It brought me to some parking area on the other side of the tracks, in a wide-open space with no sign of any yellow buses. I walked some way toward this parking area anyway, thinking maybe the bus pick-up was over there, but as I got closer I just had a feeling it wasn't the right place. Should have trusted my instincts instead of the email.

    Had to turn around, schlep all the way back, and inside the station I spotted the tourist office, which was actually much bigger than I would have expected in such a medium-sized town. They set me straight - go out through the FRONT station entrance and turn to the right, and the PostBuses pick up there. You buy your ticket from the driver when the time comes.

    I had a good hour on my hands, so I sat and ate the sandwich I'd purchased in a sandwich shop near my hotel that morning, and rested my tired back (this laptop is H-E-A-V-Y). Around 11:45 I ambled over toward the bus area and waited. The bus arrived and the driver stowed my suitcase underneath, and I got my ticket, exactly the price I was expecting: 42 CHF one way to Domodossola, Italy (as far as you can go on this run).

    I am not sure words can even describe how incredible my experience in going over the Simplon Pass. For one thing, I not only saw snow-tinted peaks but spotted an actual GLACIER across the valley. All the highest peaks had partial cloud cover even though it was sunny otherwise, but I could just make out the glacier anyway. The bus keeps climbing, climbing, climbing... you think, "How much higher can we possibly go?" but the answer is: higher! It is unreal to me that people actually do LIVE up there - I spotted little houses in places I would never have expected. Very "Heidi" and Grandfather on the Alm!

    The route down was totally different: the weather was different (grey and drizzling), but the bus' brakes held -- unlike when my family drove a rental car through there 50+ years ago and the brakes failed on the drive down in to Italy. I had hoped we would stop and get out at a few places but it's not really a sightseeing bus.

    Once into Domodossola, I had an hour before my train. So how on earth did I manage to miss it, and by about 5 seconds? I checked the train schedule and saw that my train was due to leave from Platform 3. So I went to that platform, and relaxed - writing in my journal, and talking to my niece on the phone to kill some time. As it got closer to the time when the train was due to arrive, I started wondering why there weren't more people on the platform, other than this elderly couple who asked me, in Italian, if this was the platform for Milan, and I said Yes. At least, I thought that's what they asked.

    A few minutes later they came back over and the woman told me that the train to Milan was sitting BEHIND us, on Track 1 - where it had been sitting for over 20 minutes, doing nothing. I had exactly 60 seconds to go down the underground tunnel and catch that train.

    And that's why I missed the train. Because they arbitrarily changed the track with no reason and no warning, and no announcement was made that I could detect.

    The next train was an hour and 10 minutes, so that wasn't bad. Also, it was a nicer, faster train, but I had to pay 13 Euros as a supplement, which happens with the faster trains and the Eurailpass. I didn't care... I was ON. Believe me, I asked 3 different people to make sure I had the right one.

    The highlight of the train trip into Milan was traveling alongside Lake Maggiore, which was beautiful! The houses/estates on the waterfront, the boats, the flowers... everything I thought Italy should be. Even some sunshine out that way.

    I have been in Milan for an hour. I am exhausted from the day's travels. My hotel is about 2-3 blocks from the train station. The area around here is not quaint and historic - it looks like parts of downtown Manhattan, very financial/business-like. The hotel is OK, rather basic business but modern enough. Air conditioning, and wireless internet (10 Euros for 2 hours, so I'm covered). It is now raining, and I am going to hopefully get a reservation for dinner in a restau called "Kitchen that is a short walk from here, and it was given 4 stars by the New York Times. I'm just going to dinner and coming back here to sack out and read a book or something. I need to recharge my own batteries as well as my cell phone and computer! 

    Tomorrow is enough for seeing what there is to see here in Milan - the Last Supper and the Duomo, and maybe a little window shopping.

    Buona sera, tutti!

    UPDATE: Here are today's photos.

    Tuesday, 21 August 2007

    From Geneva (Day 2 and 3)

    Keeping it brief... here are more pix from Day 2 in Geneva (that was yesterday).

    Today, Day 3:

    • U.N. tour in the morning - quite interesting, glad I went
    • Lunch in old town - food mediocre but ambiance was great, in a lovely square with four young musicians entertaining the crowd
    • Rained off and on all day
    • Natural History museum in afternoon (not worth the time, but it was free)
    • Art & History museum after that (much better, very nice)
    • Tired from walking so brief siesta and writing/photo download in late afternoon
    • Heading out to dinner now - creperie around the corner that looks charming, and close
    • Turning in early - I'm on the 8:50 to Milan tomorrow!

    Thank you for all your kind thoughts regarding my Grandmother. I'm told she's doing ok, the pneumonia is definitely not worse and may be improving. They are monitoring her, she is as lucid as she can be with the dementia. When my Dad told her I was in Geneva, she asked if they still had all the fountains! So that's something. Perhaps she will be discharged in a couple of days... but now, anything can happen. At least she's in good hands.

    On to my first trip to Italy!

    Day 2 - Genève... and some bad news

    Dsc_0037 I awoke after a good night's sleep at friend's house to a dreary morning. But then I'm used to lousy weather in Paris so nothing phases me anymore. After a great breakfast (sure did eat well at their house!) we took a stroll down the street through the little village, Le Solliat, and back again. Hung out enjoying the morning and talking. After a great lunch (perch, caught fresh in the local lake that very morning, and fresh zucchini with risotto), it was time to head to the train for Geneva.

    The trains in Switzerland are renowned for their timeliness and you really CAN set your watch by them. I had to change twice but it was easy. The last leg, from Renens to Geneva, was the prettiest... vineyards, sunflowers, and apple orchards with the glimpses of Lac Leman on the left. Sitting in the 1st class car (your Eurailpass entitled you to first class train travel if there is a first class car available - obviously smaller regional railways won't have that) with only 1 other passenger in there, it's lovely and peaceful.

    At the Geneva train station, it took me a while to find the information desk, where the English-speaking girl gave me a map, told me which tram to take (#16) to the Old Town, stop "Molard", and where to buy a ticket from a machine (you can't buy it on the tram). Challenge #1 - the machine only takes coins or some sort of special plastic card, neither of which I had on me. So back into the station to buy some bottled water and break a 10 CHF bill. Then back outside... but I could not find the #16 tram stop! I went back in to the info desk and asked her again, and this time she said to go to the corner where there was a church and a hotel and it was there. So I did that... and found the church -- and FIVE hotels! And I saw all these numbered tram and bus stops but no #16. I spotted a large sign pointing back toward the train terminal for #16 but then nothing else. I wandered around for a good 5 minutes, dragging my luggage and lugging my backpack and getting more frustrated by the minute. Finally I spotted two men who looked like they might be "official" with blue wind-breakers and asked them where the #16 was and they pointed to the MOVIE THEATRE across the intersection - next to the church and one of the hotels. They also told me my stop would be 4 stops away. Voila! Nice to be still in French-speaking territory, I'll say that.

    I could have gotten on that tram without paying, by the way. No one bothered to ask to see my ticket and unlike the buses in Paris you don't have to punch your ticket - this was just a scrap of paper.  And the men were right - it was the 4th stop: Molard. Turns out this is on a really great shopping street! Woo-hoo! My hostel is in the Old Town and the Old Town is right along a big shopping area and just 4 blocks from the lake. So far this is sounding pretty good.

    Then I caught a glimpse of the route I had to take to GET to my hostel... a charming pedestrian route with about one million steps up a steep hill! And me with all the luggage. Oy! But I had no choice, so up I went. I was wiped out by the time I got to the top, but I must admit it's such a cute little area. And at least when I leave on Wednesday it will be all downhill with the baggage.

    Top of the last staircase (with two pretty fountains and passing several interesting antique shops), turned left and there was the Cathédrale Saint Pierre, in the Cour St. Pierre, and my hostel was #4, tucked into the corner in the Cour, just as advertised. I've never stayed in a hostel before. This was the Home St. Pierre, women-only. I rang the buzzer and they buzzed me in and directed me to the elevator to the 2nd floor. Got up there - found the desk and a very charming and friendly woman helped me check in.

    Did I want breakfast every day for 7 CHF? Sure, it's doubtful I will find cheaper out in town, and it's convenient to eat here and then go. I asked if towels were provided; no, but 2 CHF would "rent" me a set of towels (Bedding is included.) Shared toilet and shower, but a sink in my PRIVATE room (I am too old to be ok with sleeping in a dormitory or sharing a room with strange college girls). And because I am NOT a student, she gave me a free city-wide transportation pass covering my entire stay! I did have to pay for the room in advance: 100 CHF total for 2 days, including towels and breakfast.

    And free wireless internet. Hence this blog post, as I am tucked in my room right now at 11:42pm.

    The room: basic, dorm-like, old building, but clean. An armoire with hanging space and a desk surface with chair, plus a huge cupboard with shelves (if you were staying here a longer time that would come in handy as it reaches to the 12-foot ceiling! Tiny bedside table with desk lamp, sink tucked in corner and clean. Bedding: a big fluffy pillow and duvet with white covers that appear spotless, and a top sheet for the bed, also spotlessly white. I checked on the communal WC and shower and they appeared quite clean -- certainly cleaner than in my dorm during college! I can already tell you I would recommend this place if you are a woman traveling alone or with a girlfriend or female family member, and staying just a few days. No boys allowed. FYI there is also a communal kitchen you can use, a dining area with piano and TV, too.

    I got myself settled and changed clothes (so overheated from "hiking" up those steps). Then before heading out I checked my voice mail... and had a message from my father back home. My grandmother is back in the hospital again. He got called at 5:30 in the morning; her blood pressure was 200/105 so they had to send her ASAP. He spoke to her own doctor later in the morning, and the doctor had already seen her. She has "moderate" pneumonia in one lung and the UTI she has had for weeks is still there (or its a new one, but more likely the old one didn't ever quite clear up) so there is infection there.

    This is not good. I don't think she can fight much longer and there is little point in trying to keep her going. Her dementia is getting worse every day. She's never happy, never herself. She's a mess, poor thing. The doctors want a few days to see if there is any point in trying to treat this but if she is not improving, my dad and I agree, as does the doctor, that we will let nature take its course and just keep her pain-free and comfortable.

    I am not surprised by this news, although I am sad about it, but I actually kind of expected it. And you know what? It's time. She's had enough. She has no quality of life. So even though it will put a cloud over my trip, that is OK with me, because if it's her time then I'd rather she just go as quickly as possible rather than dragging out a half-life with no quality to her experiences. She's not in any physical pain but mentally... she's just upset all the time, and that is torture for her.

    My father agrees with me that if the worst does happen in the next 12 days, I should continue on with my trip. That may seem shocking to some, but you'd have to know our family situation, and the fact that my grandmother has already planned and paid for her final arrangements. So her instructions will be carried to the letter... they will just be delayed a bit until I can arrange to get home. I'm the executor - they can't do anything until I get there anyway, and I'll have to come home for a number of weeks to settle the estate, too. There is nothing I can do for her now - except to finish this trip and take the notes that will become the book that was inspired by her own travel diary from 50 years ago. In a way, I feel like I should finish this trip and in so doing, it is honoring her.

    She may pull through this. It's happened before. But I'd be lying if I said I wanted her to pull through. Not in the shape she is in now. That's not the person she wants to be, and this is not the life she wants for herself. She is ready to go. She's said so. She's just waiting for nature to get the hint.

    After getting this news, I took myself out to explore the town a bit. It was around 6:30pm by the time I actually got out of the hostel. I started with a quick look around the Cathedral across the way, which was just closing up for the night. I can go back tomorrow, and might even climb the tower to check out the great view. (It is now midnight and the church bells are chiming some kind of hymn. At 11pm they chimed 11 times. This is pretty but I hope it's not going to go on all night! And there go the 12 "dong-dong-dong...")

    Then I headed back down the steep steps, taking photos of the pretty fountains. Crossed the shopping street and into Place du Molard which had restaurants galore. Made a mental note of an Italian place that looked good, for dinner later. Kept walking toward the lake, destination: the Jet d'Eau.

    This giant fountain right in the middle of the lake (well, in the middle of the marina part of the lake -- the lake itself is the largest in Europe) "jets" to 459 feet/140 metres with 132 gallons/500 liters PER SECOND. My grandmother has made a point of telling me I had to see this fountain, and I admit I thought "OK, it's a fountain, what's the big deal?" She was right... it is really impressive. Especially when you walk out on the narrow jetty to get up close. You can actually walk UNDER the spray if you don't mind getting soaked.

    I walked quite a bit around the lake-front until I finally got too hungry and went back toward the hostel to find a restaurant. I settled on an Italian place where I had THE BEST PIZZA EVER, and that includes being even better than my favorite pizza place in New Jersey. I haven't had decent pizza even once in Paris, and this hit the spot.

    I got back to the hostel at 10pm, exhausted. Did a little more unpacking, and decided to download more photos from the camera.

    And now, it's time for bed. I've decided not to rush out of here at the crack of dawn tomorrow. I'll have plenty of time to see more of Geneva but for now I think I need the rest. Getting unpleasant news will do that to a person.

    Don't worry though. I'm taking it in stride. My grandmother has had a good life and she got to do a few things that a lot of women in her generation never got to do - like travel a bit. Now it's my turn to finally get to see the world.

    I know she's happy I've got this opportunity.

    Monday, 20 August 2007

    Day 1 - Le Solliat, Switzerland

    Dsc_0036 My train trip into Switzerland was great. The TGV gets you most of the way quickly, until you start climbing into the higher elevations where there are no high-speed tracks. My Eurailpass entitled me to sit in First Class on all trains when there is a 1st class car, and we were offered breakfast. I thought it was free but learned afterward they charged 12,90 euros ($17.41 USD). Won't do THAT again as I didn't eat half of what they brought me!

    As we crossed into Switzerland the Swiss immigrations guys walked through the train - I'd wondered how they would do passport checks. Flashed the front of my American passport and they didn't even blink or ask me to open it. Just another American tourist...

    Where S&J live is not actually in the Alps, which start on the other side of Lac Leman (the big lake between Geneva and Lausanne) but the hills are green and beautiful and dotted with chalet-style homes, just as I remembered. Everything looks so fresh and pretty here. Their home is a LOG style home, and there are two more such homes being built across the street. Very strong, snug and cozy. Interestingly enough, their home comes with it's own regulation-grade BOMB SHELTER. OK, it's not only for bombs but natural disasters. The Swiss government encourages this, which I find ironic for a neutral country.

    After lunch we took a drive up over the Vallée du Joux, where they live, to the top of the hill to see the view of Lac Leman, the Alps, and you could just make out Geneva on one end and Lausanne on the other. Then we drove down the valley again and up the other side, where we hiked a short way, crossing back into France (that's how close they live to the border) to see a view on the other side.

    Last night, we went to a little family-run restaurant way up in the hills (it was a bit like driving in the hills on the Northern California coast where the roads are winding and you need a strong stomach) for raclette - it's been 20 years since I last had this Swiss dish of melted cheese and potatos. Super yummy and couldn't believe the price 10 CHF which is about $8.00 USD! Plus a little wine and appetizer and coffee afterward, total for me 20 CHF or $16.57. Love the exchange rate here in Switzerland!

    So, an easy, relaxing start to my two-week adventure. After this it will be go-go-go most of the time, except when I take time out to sit in a café.

    Mental snapshots of the day:

    • The nice French family sitting opposite me on the train: a father and his teenaged son & daughter, and how well they all got along. The daughter looked typically Parisian and was a dead ringer for a young Justine Bateman circa "Family Ties".
    • Fields of sunflowers that are ready for harvest
    • First glimpse of a Swiss chalet
    • "Cow chimes" - the melodic sound of the giant cowbells that every Swiss cow wears. They tend to wander so the bells are practical.
    • Coming face-to-face with a cow.
    • How peaceful it is here in the hills.
    • Good food, good wine and good friends.
    • The real snapshots are here.

    On to Geneva!

    Sunday, 19 August 2007

    Grand Tour, Day 1: 7:44 am

    The French rail system being impeccably à l'heure, I am sitting in my seat on the TGV right now, yawning because I got very little sleep last night but excited beyond even my own imagination.

    I am off!

    Next stop: Le Solliat, Switzerland, via Vallorbe.

    Saturday, 18 August 2007

    Grand Tour Reads

    What I will be reading during the next two weeks, when I am not otherwise occupied walking, gawking, staring up at domed cathedral ceilings, napping on trains, asking for directions and getting lost anyway, writing postcards, gazing in wonderment at snow-capped mountain peaks and fairy-tale castles, downloading photos from camera memory to free up space for more pix (I expect to have thousands before the two weeks are up), eating gelato on a gondola or hanging out in the Hofbrauhaus in Munich:

    • The Unfree French: Life under the Occupation, by Richard Vixen
    • Two Lipsticks and a Lover, by Helena Frith Powell
    • and yes, reconnecting with my idol, Jane Austen, with Pride and Prejudice

    I got the travel guides down to just one: a guide to Venice. Everything else I needed, I photocopied from other books to save space. Oh, and there's the little pocket phrase book, just in case.

    I would like to think this is a vacation where I could catch up even more on my reading list but I know myself. I will get lost in contemplation of the view from my train window and not be able to do anything else except think to myself: "Look where I AM today!"

    I will not, however, miss the yowling cat who is screeching outside my window right now, at 1:33 am. Again.

    Friday, 17 August 2007

    The Grand Tour: Plans, Part V -- 36 hours and counting

    Holy crap. I've got just a day and a half left before I board the TGV at Gare du Nord de Lyon Sunday morning, at 7:44. I keep thinking there is all this stuff I have left to do -- and there is -- but at the same time I also get the feeling that there can't be that much more I can PLAN to do. In other words, I've planned what I could, and it is now time to make up the rest as I go along. And if I've forgotten something... so be it, I'll cope.

    I am one of those people that is an excellent organizer when I need to be -- and being organized about a trip like this, with numerous train connections throughout, is the only way to do the trip without stress -- but who also doesn't have to plan everything on a vacation. For me, half the fun is getting somewhere and seeing or doing something unexpected, som